Discipline that Works
If you have ever spent even
ten minutes in a classroom of wiggly children then you understand the need for
discipline. Where there is no discipline the class becomes a battle zone. A
place where the strongest will or the biggest bully reigns. It is not a safe
place nor is it a loving environment. Organizing a class can be compared to
organizing grasshoppers. While it can be challenging it is well worth the
effort.
Discipline
is not silence.
Our objective is not to
have a perfectly quiet class or a class where we turn children into little
robots that never move or talk unless told to do so. Children don’t have to be
quiet to learn. I have observed classes that were buzzing with activity and
controlled noise where children were learning and having fun. That environment
is very different than disorder. There are times in the class that the children
need to be quiet. But there are also times that the children need to laugh and
make noise. Even fun times need safe boundaries.
Discipline
is not hollering, jumping up and
down, beating your fist on the table, cussing, belittling, begging or hitting.
Discipline is helping children grow into the maturity where they can self
discipline. Discipline is establishing boundaries of acceptable and unacceptable
behavior.
There
is no perfect class. As long as we
have people we will have challenges. We are in the people business. So we want
to have people challenges.
Let’s face it our society
has problems. People don’t leave those problems at home when they come to
church. Children bring their problems with them when they come into your class.
Because there is such a lack of discipline in our society, children will bristle
when you try to establish discipline in your class. Dealing with these children
can be as painful as trying to pet a porcupine. Often Children have not been
trained how to act in church.
Get
a good attitude about discipline
Discipline is not something
you do to someone. It is something you do for someone. Discipline is a good
thing.
Paul disciplined himself.
Athletes must be disciplined to hone their talents to greatness. No one ever
achieved anything of significance without discipline.
Parents need to be
encouraged to discipline and train their children. Classrooms discipline is
essential to create a loving, safe environment for children to learn.
Proverbs 22:6 Train up a
child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it!
I wish I could give you 10
commandments for your classroom. I wish I could give you 10 little things that
if you do them you will have the perfect class. But it’s not that simple. Yet, I
do have 10 suggestions that will really work to help you have a safe, loving
environment children will enjoy. In this teaching I am going to use an acrostic
of the word DISCIPLINE to give you 10
important keys to effective classroom discipline.
D: Divine
Presence Of God
Psalms 51:12,13 Restore
unto me the joy of Thy salvation; and uphold me with Thy free spirit. Then will
I teach transgressors thy ways; and sinners shall be converted unto Thee.
Have more than a program.
Have a message.
I:
Influences
Look at every aspect of
your program. Are there things that are causing discipline problems? Sometimes
the leader is responsible for more of the discipline problems than they realize.
Is your classroom set up
to eliminate distractions?
Look at the set up of the
room. Are the students facing the door where late arrivers will be entering?
Can you turn the chairs so the children’s backs are to the entrance door?
How is the temperature of
your room?
Are people going and
coming in the room? Train your workers to minimize their going and coming. Train
your workers not to stand and talk with each other. Be sure the workers
understand how to kick in and become involved in the ministry instead of being a
distraction.
Are the students bored?
Is their inappropriate
behavior a call for attention? Look at the situation and evaluate what is really
going on instead of reacting to the situation. Talk to other workers (Without
being critical or gossiping). Be careful that you do not reinforce bad behavior
by rewarding them with attention and extra privileges.
The remainder of this
workshop is available on CD or DVD.